In honour of those who mother a community

 

Just some of the Millers Point mothers at our festival last year

Just some of the Millers Point mothers at our festival last year

 

All of us who love Millers Point and those whose roots run deep will share my wishes but this post is personal. My family and I value the men here, especially those that have contributed to the fabric of our community life, through friendship and leadership. This Mother’s Day though I want to say a heartfelt thanks to all those mothers in Millers’s Point, whether you have mothered your own child, grandchildren or others or have mothered in a broader sense.

You are the women who first welcomed me, a newcomer, with open arms. You were the first to raise your face to smile as we passed in the street. You are the ones with businesses that are the centre of social life for those with nowhere else to go. You are the ones that ask how I am and genuinely care. You are those I would not hesitate to call should I need your help. You and your mothering are why we feel safe here, why we know our children are kindly watched and cared for when we try to let them have some freedom (frequently known as ‘letting them run feral’ by modern parents!) and many of you have contributed so much to the social glue and commitment to place that holds local communities together. Many of you have spent lifetimes looking out for each other, with husbands and sons lost in wars, through dangerous maritime work, or tragedy, saving our historic Sydney from demolition (if they only knew, the rest of Sydney would thank you too) saving our local school, caring for our aged and impaired and setting up activities for participation of all. Some of you are new like me, but we are connected across common values, if not fortune. You are the heart of a community that really does care about those who are more vulnerable.

Most of you live in social housing. Some of you have left us and we miss you every day. Some we will never see again. I am so sorry that Mike Baird and his colleagues have failed to recognize your priceless gift of creating community and a civil society, so discussed but rarely witnessed as we have seen it here. But we know, we have benefited, and from my family to all of yours, our love and heartfelt thanks. May all that you are and have contributed be celebrated this Mother’s Day.

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5 Responses to In honour of those who mother a community

  1. Dawn Caruana 10 May 2015 at 11:47 am #

    Thanks Kelly,what a beautiful read.You too are a very special lady and i do hope you and your lovely family have a great day to day. Happy Mothers Day !! love always Dawn xx

  2. cheryl & peter barnes 10 May 2015 at 12:21 pm #

    wonderfully said kelli. as outsiders we are enamoured by the efforts of you and others who fight the good fight to save this wonderful area of Sydney.we both wish you the best of mothers days and offer you any assistance you may need for the ongoing battle. love from Cheryl and peter barnes.

    • Kelli Haynes 12 May 2015 at 10:26 am #

      I hope you feel a valued part of the Millers Point community too. X

  3. Geraldine Thomas 12 May 2015 at 9:53 am #

    Many thanks Kelli for the lovely thoughts on Mother’s Day, and a big thank you for all your efforts on behalf

    of the Millers Point community.

    Geraldine

    • Kelli Haynes 12 May 2015 at 10:28 am #

      You and Sally are two of my anchors.

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